Dumb Ways To Cope Up With Unhappy Life

  Are you searching for a perfect cover letter template in your search engine, but you just ended up having no idea how it's done? You apply for a job that you want, but they require you to send not just your Resume or CV, but also your Cover Letter. Now, you start scrolling on the result of your search  "Cover Letter template", but the suggestions are different from each other. And now you're confused. You might see lots of styles, arrangements, letter constructions on Google, and tips for values to input, but what really is the simple yet effective pattern to make a perfect cover letter? Many people are submitting job applications daily, and taking their chances to join their ideal team. However, most of the time, employers decide on who to hire based from the simple actions and documents you show them, including your Cover Letter. Oftentimes, job applicants think that Cover letter is just a summary of their resume, so why make it? They don't create one until ...

  "My health is already declining due to burnout" "I'm burnout at work, how do I get 'unburnt'?" "I really am feeling stressed and unhappy" "I feel imprisoned and trapped here" "Being in the office makes me miserable" "I quit my job because of burnout" I wonder if people can still remember their fresh-grad days, when they were so excited to land a job, get to work, hustle, and earn the hard work. I wonder if people can reminisce those days when people thought that having a job would make them stable, independent and of course, happy. Until one day, you do not like what you are doing anymore and it feels like nothing but stress and unhappiness. The dissatisfaction goes in, mental and physical exhaustion, and emotional stress enter your body and mind, and other feelings and work situations that we may find "toxic", and we keep on saying nothing to our co-workers but "Fck this job! I quit!" Reaaal ...

How dare him! After all that I've done, after giving my everything to him because I trusted him so much more than anyone! I just couldn't believe that he will do such infidelity. At first, I did forgive him because I thought he was gonna change but.. *cries for a while*.. What have I done wrong? Am I not good enough as a spouse? As a partner? I wanna know why he constantly cheated on me and hid it to my face, and made me look like an idiot! You didn't think your relationship would go this way, did you? Your mind wanders back to the days when you were both happy, and contented.  Those moments when you just want to own each other, live under the same roof, and the have best days of eternity with the love of your life. Gradually, your relationship goals came true. You married each other, planned your career ahead, overcame some challenges that went in your relationship's way, had kids, and thought that nothing's gonna break your romance. But then, all of a sudden, thin...

Has it ever happened to you, when you want to raise your hand and answer your professor's question but you don't. Because you think you might be wrong, and you better not speak and shame yourself while the whole class is listening. Or have you ever wanted to join a dance group, but you thought you're not good enough in dancing, so you didn't continue to join the club? Self-esteem is how we see our own worth and how we feel about our own self. In short, it defines our confidence . According to Maslow, on his theory in Holistic-Dynamic Psychology, Self-esteem reflects a "desire for strength, for achievement, for adequacy, for mastery, and competence, for confidence in the face of the world and for independence and freedom". Having confidence moves individuals and swings us to places we did not think we'll reach, but sometimes, lack of confidence paralyzes us  and sticks ourselves to what we're comfortable with, not knowing we're not stepping up for...

We may see posts in social media saying " when boredom strikes " or " So BORED. What to do ?", along with their selfie pictures or self-portrait facing the mirror with their cellphones covering their faces. Seems familiar?  Boredom is a usual temporary state of mind that people feel when they are unsatisfied with their current situation and craving for stimulation , or more stimulation compare to what they are actually doing at the moment. According to research studies, boredom happens when people are having trouble to focus their attention, and also when people have little control over the situation . We don't usually see posts from people who have autonomously travelled miles away from their location to see their dream places or couples celebrating their own anniversaries at a fine dining restaurant with caption " BOREDOM AT ITS FINEST " (Unless one of them has blocked the other and really want the relationship to end.) Truth-hurts aside, I mean, ...